ALL WOMEN SHOULD READ THIS…..AND MEN

THIS IS A POWERFUL STORY…..

 

As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I cant do for myself.

Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

 

She quickly corrected his thought and stated,

 

“I am not referring to money. ” I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life.”

 

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.

 

She said “I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple minded man.

 

I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don’t need someone unequally yoked….believers mixed with non-believers is a recipe for disaster. And even if he is a believer, he needs to believe as I do.

 

I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don’t need a financial burden.

 

I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, and strong enough to keep me grounded when I do go through changes. I don’t need a man who is going to purposely bring me grief.

 

I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him and he must respect me.

 

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business or who is “messy” in his personal affairs. I have no problem being submissive..but he has to be worthy.

 

God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.

If he can’t help himself then he definitely can’t help me.

 

When she finished her spiel, she looked at him.

 

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face.

 

He said, “You are asking for a lot”.

 

“She replied, “I’M WORTH  A LOT.”

I'M IN LOVE WITH MY GODSON. HE HAS BECOME MY HOPE THAT FLOAT!

It's soo special to watch my baby grow into his own person. I love U Kaleb. When I'm around him my hope floats!

He gives me reasons to want to speak and live and just smile again. this is him @ seven months just sitting up watching and remembering all that is around him. 

This moment I had to smile because watching him, looking into his eyes lights my soul. His hands and little feet, his button nose and puffy cheeks. The way he watches me and glares at me when he thinks I'm not watching. His baby scent and the innocence of his soul.

I will always keep u in my heart and in my soul until my last breath. I love U my Kaleb. Madrina luvs U!

U inspire me to keep dreaming and living and loving and sharing. U are my heart of Gold and U will forever be my # 1 GodSon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Michael Bolton - Can I Touch You There

WHAT I LIKE AND LOVE... inner person... ME

I love Converses. I started wearing them back when I was about 17(high school yrs). I became so in love of Converses that I owned just about every color there was in that time.
I even had a pair of Polo Converses and Benetton  Converses.

@ that time the kids in school and in the streets use to say "there go that girl with the cheap sneakers" "what's wrong, ur moms can't offered to buy u a pair of Nikes?"

I had Nikes and Addidas and all kinds but when I put a pair of Converse on... I was comfortable with ME.

I love them soo much that I went and got a pair of Red Converses for my Godson...hahahaha. He is seven months but his God mommy already got him his first pair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Converses I love to wear and I love to own.

I am also a realistic person who can put on a gown and a pair of stilettos shoes, put my conditioned hair up and wear some pearls. I can socialize with greatness and never look like a woman who loves Converses.

I like to be able to put on lipstick and blush, some eyeliner and mascara; To walk out of my home and into the eyes of others... as they gasp from the beauty before them, I flirt with my eyes and simply take in the night.

I'm soo much then just flesh. I'm soul, beauty, strength, passion, I'm wisdom, educated, sweetheart. I'm ME!

I'm the shoulder many need to lean on, I'm the eyes of the beholder, I'm that wind beneath many wings, and I'm Cheddy, who is willing to put her heart out there and make a difference in ones life.

And even though that night might be over, the dress will be taking off, the heels will be back in its box, the makeup will be removed, the shell will be filled with a t-shirt, jeans, and Converses... I WILL STILL BE CHEDDY