WHAT DO U KNOW FOR SURE??

As I step into another stage in my life, of growth, of loyalty, of teachings and learning's; I've asked myself "WHAT DO U KNOW FOR SURE?"

I know for sure my heart will always go on to stand with strong beats in someone's life. I know for sure my hope will out last someone's doubts. I know for sure the gift to keep giving others will overwhelm the questionable minds. I know for sure I will forever stay humble and honest; to love with passion and sensitivity. I know now for sure that when I NOW cry, they are tears of joy. TEARS OF FINALLY UNDERSTANDING AND FINALLY KNOWING WHY!

I know for sure when I write it's because I want to write and it comes from my soul. I know for sure I use passion in my words. I know for sure when to pick the time, day and moment. I know for sure that I am POWERFUL!

Today I was faced with many early obstacles and for a moment I felt powerless, out of control and even less then. 


I quickly took control of that moment, asked myself ""Are u going to allow these obstacles to take the best from u?"    
"NOPE, HELL NO AND I BELIEVE NOT!!!"

So I handled it with respect for me and with respect towards the situation and obstacles. I excepted the Karma that I once dismissed and took responsibility for my past mis-conduct. 

IT FELT SOO GOOD AND SOO FREE! I felt like a happy person who has it all. Health, Love, Freedom, Money, and Power. 

I'm learning that as a person U can have all this when U learn to see it for what it is. When U reach into your foundation and U can see a solid ground and U can feel it; It's when U know U can start to built and understand.

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So... I ask U one more time:

WHAT DO U KNOW FOR SURE??

A Dear Cheddy Letter/ I share with U all

Dearest Cheddy

I'm full of emotions as I think of what to write to u. Watching U today, dealing with wanting to be present and dealing with your emotions, touched my heart. I'm so proud of the person u have become. U went from spinning out of control to pulling the parachute right on time.
I'm honored to have shared time with u, to have followed your tears and even stumbled into your laughter's. Through it all, u managed to pick yourself up, brush your shoulders and u went forward. I know that in life u have your falling out and u might have to face obstacles but I'm so confident that u will deliver each time with your head healed up high.

You're such a great spirit. U are a caring person, a loving person and a spiritual person. U have been in the mist of many storms and have walked away with some pain. But now; now u walked away completely UN-harm. I don't know where u get the strength from but I do know where your hope comes from.

I know u are battling with your last email u wrote and I know it will take time for u to completely let it just be. But for u to understand that it is just emotions expressed on paper... well... that's great of u. It takes a big person with great beauty to have compassion. I know u have just that!

It has taken me 37 years to write to u and just thank u for being the person u are. I know the passion u carry inside, to just love and be loved. And I truly know that special person will step into your arms and will not want to be let go.

I wish u so much love and hope. U have the Grace of God and the Presence of Mercy.

I remember one blue day u asked me... "what is my purpose in my life?"
"what am I living for?" and I just listened to u but I had no answer.

But now... I want to repeat what I heard u say to me not to long ago.

You said... "my purpose in life is my voice,spirit and humility. I am to show others what hope is. To share my knowledge with others and to be present." "I live for me and for my faith and for my Godson. To teach him to be a great person. I want to live a journey of hope and salvation"

When I listened and stayed present in your view, I instantly cried and lived. U might be living again for many others but I personally feel u are finally alive for U.

Thank u for showing me what greatness looks like and thank u for telling me that Hope really does Float.

I love u soo much and may God keep blessing U!
Cheddy

I share this because 

 

Count on me - Whitney Houston- with lyrics

Validate Yourself Now not Later!

"I am completely present when I say what I say..."

FEELINGS WE ALL NEED TO REMEMBER TO USE IN OUR DAY TO DAY. BE HONEST WITH U FIRST! 

I'm sharing this information with u all because it was shared with me. My therapist has worked with me to learn to appreciate myself and to put myself first on the list. I have been working on Me and I want U to work on U! 

STARTING POINTS FOR YOUR SOUL HEALING!

If U are invited somewhere or asked to do something but you're not comfortable and that person expects for U to explain WHY; U can simply say "that doesn't work for me"

Remember: U don't have to give drawn out explanations or be sorry for your decisions, u can just say...

It's not about U, it's not a problem, you are not a bad person but that doesn't work for me.

U have to teach people to respect U when U put U first.

Remember: they are use to U putting them First, so be kind and patient and allow them to understand your growth and faith in U.

If they suggest something different and U feel at ease, calm and peace then U can say...

Now... "this does work for me" 

In order for U to be respected and put first U have to change your way of action. 

BECOME KIND AND STAY IN THE PRESENT! DON'T DISCONNECT FROM THE MOMENT.

ASK THEM: Family, Friends, Associates, anyone u interact with...

• Is this a good time? Maybe to meet, greet and or speak.
• Work on being present in the moment and if U can repeat word for word what has been told to u... Do So! 

• I would like a Do Over! if u said something wrong or hurtful, ask for a Do Over.

Teach People to change the way they treat U. Be sharp in your actions, show and give love and compassion and be your own leader. 


U must be validated by others because U validate yourself. 

Above all... Have Faith in Your Higher Power!!!

 Cheddy/Meche